Editorial: Looking At or Looking Up To!
There's a big difference in being "looked at" and being "looked up to"! I'm not sure everyone knows the difference. For example, we "look at" entertainers a lot, but we certainly don't "look up" to them. However, sometimes I get the feeling they think that we do "look up" to them and value their opinions when we are only "looking at" them.
However, it may not just be entertainers that fit into this category. It may be a lot of different people in different walks of life, including politicians, bureaucrats, media personalities, professionals, and others.
What does it take to be "looked at"? Not much really. Be a good actor and entertainer. Be "different" from those around you. Cause problems! Be ridiculous and demanding! Does this remind you of some individuals that have been in the news during the last few months?
What does it take to be "looked up to"? We look up to and respect those that have something meaningful in life to share and are willing to help others; those individuals that give up something in order to help others. This can include parents, teachers, clergy, political leaders, friends, and others. Those individuals that go out of their way to help others and lead lives that are dedicated to making this a better world are the ones we can "look up to."
It's sad when those that are "looked at" get the impression that they are being "looked up to" and that we can't live without their opinions. Get ready! With elections coming up this next year, we will have a lot of "looked at" individuals wanting to be "looked up to"!
One last word�for all those politicians and bureaucrats that want to be respected, do something that will encourage us to "look up to" you instead of "looking at" you in wonder and bewilderment!
Loyd V. Allen, Jr., PhD, RPh
Editor-in-Chief
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